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So I have this really neat new car radio called uconnect, yay, unfortunately it alerts me every time I get a text message. I am able, while paired, to uncheck access to messaging but every time I re-pair the device it is checked again giving the radio access to my messages and alerting me driving me nuts. And it may have even turned itself back on while paired this am (I got an alert but can't recall if I unchecked the box when I got back in the car that time)

So I guess I am asking if there is any way to make the Bluetooth settings for individual devices permanent? An app? Some other setting? Rom? Tool box? Specifically, I want to turn off Bluetooth text notifications on only one device.

I looked all over google and forum for answers but didn't find too much - lots of unhappy uconnect (my new radio) owners for text alerting but nothing on getting my settings to stick.

Thanks in advance everyone